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no boyfriend ever
by Nikki, 16, female

April 11, 2010

Dear Diary,
I have never had a boyfriend and I am 16 years old. It use to not bother me b/c I felt the boys were to immature for me. But now I wish I had someone. I know boys aren't all that important, but I WANT A BOYFRIEND! I have been asked out, but never accepted. The boys who always asked me out were always interested in one thing and I'm not. I feel like a loser at times. I just hate watching all my friends walk around kissing their bf's and I sit there feeling uncomfortable. It sometimes makes me feel sad. Should I be feeling this way? Will I ever find love or anything? Am I insane? I have so many emotions that I can't hardly explain. I've become boy crazy.......

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i am in the exact same situation except ive never evenbeen asked out! it embarases me and i dont know what to do beause i know all thse guys i would definitely be with but they always find other girls who arent even that prettier or who i know im better than!(not to sound concieted) it makes me depressed sometimes...
NOBOY

i know how you feel exactly, i am 17 and i get so mad when people iin the hall who are younger then me are holding hands and kissing their boyfirends and i've never had one. I wish i could give you advice but i have the same question. Its hard, so all i can say is hang in there.
shameelah

Its okay theres no need to rush. youll meet somebnody and itll be better if you don't just settle
With love, KIM

Its normal. youre not insane. and like you, i dont accept the boys who ask me. i think when i find a boy who is good at conversation and likes to cook like i do ill go out with him.
With love, KIM

um. hi. i have your life. hahahaha good luck! we'll get there. we're still young.
U Wish U Knew

I think you should ask a boy
yewon

theres always eharmany but i think you'll have to wait 2 more years for that.
laugh

oh, and love doesn't exist....a relationship is just two peoples competing narcissistic fantasies about one another.
Bad Adviceman

#####, haven't you seen 'never been kissed'? If you want a boyfriend, you have to become a reporter and then go back to highscool 10 years after you graduate to write an espose and then you'll find that perfect guy. DUH!!!
Bad Adviceman

As the same thing that happened to me, and i found true love at 17 it WILL happen, believe me girl!!!
Natasia

Guess what? I used to feel the same way. Still do. It's important to wait for the right kinda guy. Trust me, it'll be worth it when you do meet him. In fact, I didn't have a bf until I was 16. But it made my relationship far more meaningful than my friends'.
peekz


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