her choice .
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ashleee, 13, female
April 8, 2010
Dear Diary,i have this bestfreind , shes amazing , and knows how i feel about stuff , we ALWAYS tell eachother stuff , and just kept to eachother , alot of teachers thought always asked if we connected to the hip . :)
but then in the pass few weeks things have been going down hill , and shes has a new boyfriend ,that just has to be one of my ex's , and he is changing herBIGTIME !
even tho she doesnt notice it ,& want to belive it , he is , he told me that he wnats her to keep ALL her ##### to herself , and not have any friends , cz there not her life , and he is ?
can you say joke much??
i'd say , but ive talked to her about it , and seruosuly there is NO point of trying anymore , cz she will neverr notice what is happening , cz she loves this guy , and would rather have him , eventho allhe did the last times they datedd was lie . cheat , and break promises .
so what is the point anymore ?
my life is just slowly falling aparrt /
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In my experience, females have the hardest time keeping loyalties in adolescence. I'm not saying it's always true, but it primarily is. Remind her of the way things used to be b/t you and her, and her and her boyfriend. Then ask her how much things have changed. Tell her what he said about keeping her to himself.
Jonathan Lawley
try talking, if she doesn't listen, don't worry because relationships when you're 13 don't last long. so for the time being, let her have her fun and she'll come back to you in the end.
anonymous
So if you were such good friends, wouldn't you at least try to help her understand what kind of situation she's in? She probably can't see it but maybe she needs someone she trusts to tell her. I just hope he doesn't become her greatest regret because no one spoke up.
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